Being all soft and nice and warm and cuddly does not make me a plush toy.. So playing with me and then throwing me away just might not be the best idea...
.. Says this little, confused, silly girl to a guy that uses her more like a doormat than a plush toy but well.. She kinda makes her point here.
But boy simply chooses no to hear this. Why? Because.
Boys like toys. And boys tend to treat everything like toys. Unless you show them teeth and treat them that way. Then and only then they respect you as a human being.
But damn it.. This silly girl only shows her teeth when smiling. And she even does that rarely. So she is kinda trapped here, right? Because she is too weak to cut the crap and say - Hey you asshole, just GTFO of my life alright? If you wanna mess with me, just get lost.
Naaaww.. She can never do that. Why? Because silly girl is in love, of course! And losing him would hurt way more than.. accepting she is doormat and he needs to walk all over her now and then.
No way to help the poor lost soul.. And one day the boy is going to get himself another doormat and just get rid of her.. She is still not aware that this is actually the best thing that can happen to her.
She is actually living in constant fear that this will happen soon. And she cries when he treats her bad, and she cries when she thinks of this option happening.. and she cries when he comes back and sweettalks her to trusting him again..
What is that one word that can be used to describe a girl in love?
Yeah, got it..
Stupid..
Not to mention there's no trace of self-esteem in her whatsoever..
And how you help her? Actually just nodding your head and hugging her would do. Nothing you say can help. Just let her talk and talk and talk... And be silent. She will need you again when he leaves her for good.
Now that is when you talk.. You tell her it is all gonna be fine, she will find someone who deserves her, she is better off without him anyways..
Just don't even think about saying I TOLD YA SO!
That is going to provoke some serious crying alright..
.. Says this little, confused, silly girl to a guy that uses her more like a doormat than a plush toy but well.. She kinda makes her point here.
But boy simply chooses no to hear this. Why? Because.
Boys like toys. And boys tend to treat everything like toys. Unless you show them teeth and treat them that way. Then and only then they respect you as a human being.
But damn it.. This silly girl only shows her teeth when smiling. And she even does that rarely. So she is kinda trapped here, right? Because she is too weak to cut the crap and say - Hey you asshole, just GTFO of my life alright? If you wanna mess with me, just get lost.
Naaaww.. She can never do that. Why? Because silly girl is in love, of course! And losing him would hurt way more than.. accepting she is doormat and he needs to walk all over her now and then.
No way to help the poor lost soul.. And one day the boy is going to get himself another doormat and just get rid of her.. She is still not aware that this is actually the best thing that can happen to her.
She is actually living in constant fear that this will happen soon. And she cries when he treats her bad, and she cries when she thinks of this option happening.. and she cries when he comes back and sweettalks her to trusting him again..
What is that one word that can be used to describe a girl in love?
Yeah, got it..
Stupid..
Not to mention there's no trace of self-esteem in her whatsoever..
And how you help her? Actually just nodding your head and hugging her would do. Nothing you say can help. Just let her talk and talk and talk... And be silent. She will need you again when he leaves her for good.
Now that is when you talk.. You tell her it is all gonna be fine, she will find someone who deserves her, she is better off without him anyways..
Just don't even think about saying I TOLD YA SO!
That is going to provoke some serious crying alright..
Belgrade Time
2 comments:
girl u know i will never tell u ,'i told u so' will always be with u no matter what !!!!!!! that's a promise love ..but please nothing ...i mean nothing is worth ur precious tears :(((((((
I know my dearest :) it's just that I had this kinda situation recently with a friend.. and remembered we all actually live trough these situations in pretty much same way.. And I know you would never tell me 'I told ya so' but I said it to her and really regreted it.. just proves you are more than a friend and the best person in world.
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